Apparently,atoms,molecules,and ions have distinct forms when conditions change(such as temperature),which we will talk about as we show a picture-
We will only be touching on Solids,Liquids,and Gases.
Solid
The particles (ions, atoms or molecules) are packed closely together, so closely that the particles cannot move freely but can only vibrate. As a result, a solid has a stable, definite shape, and a definite volume. Solids can only change their shape by force, as when broken or cut.Thus,they cannot be compressed.
TRANSITION:
Watch the ice melt!
Liquid
Now that our ice is now water,lets continue...
The volume is definite if the temperature and pressure are constant. When a solid is heated above its melting point, it becomes liquid. There is still some force between the particles,but the molecules are now more spread out and have more 'freedom' with a mobile structure. This means that the shape of a liquid is not definite but is determined by its container. The volume is usually greater than that of the corresponding solid, with the noteworthy exception of water, H2O.
TRANSITION:
Watch the water turn into gas within seconds!(Okay,you don't normally see this)
Gas
Now that our water is in a gaseous state,lets continue...
The molecules have enough kinetic energy so that the effect of forces between the molecules are small, and the molecules are far apart from each other. A gas has no definite shape or volume, but occupies the entire container in which it is confined. A liquid may be converted to a gas by heating at constant pressure to the boiling point, or else by reducing the pressure at constant temperature.
Links:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/State_of_matter
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-GSrrk_ATM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04gnMELg-7Y